On Mother's Day we all dedicate beautiful words to the mothers around us, remember with love and thanks to our own mothers and, if we have children, we celebrate this emotional day with them.
But I have the feeling that on a day like today, society forgets "mothers at heart". Those strong and brave women who have been fighting for years to be mothers, and who love their children with all their soul, despite not yet having them in their arms.
To moms who fight against infertility
"To you, who face every new day with the sadness and despair of watching the months go by on the calendar without the positive coming. You long to be a mother for a long time, but things are not being easy, and pain and reluctance have stopped your life. ".
"You see the women around you celebrate Mother's Day accompanied by their children, and your heart is knotted. How difficult it is to hold back tears on a day like today, where you feel like a mother but you don't have a baby by your side to show all your love! "
"I will tell you one thing. You are also a mother. You have been a mother for a long time.":
"You are from the moment you you started taking care of yourself to make your belly the best place for your baby ".
"You are from the moment you You feel that life is going away with every new period. And you think you despair of pain ... over and over again".
"You are from the moment that the nerves do not let you sleep, thinking about the fertility treatment you are going to undergo. You do not care about the punctures, or the discomforts you may feel ... you just want all that suddenly its fruits ".
"You are from the moment you you love with all your strength a being who is not even in your womb, but you feel that it has been part of you for a long time ... "
To mothers in the process of adoption
"To you what The years of waiting to meet your son is wrinkling your soul, reflecting the despair in your skin. You long to be a mother for a long time, but the bureaucratic procedures are slow, and despair has taken over your life. ".
In Babies and more, everything you need to know about adoption in Spain and abroad: a mother of three adopted children tells us"You see the women around you celebrate Mother's Day accompanied by their children, and your heart is knotted. How difficult it is to hold back tears on a day like today, when you can only dream of the son you have thousands of kilometers away from you, not even knowing when you can meet! "
"I will tell you one thing. You are also a mother. You have been a mother for a long time.":
"You are from the moment you decided to complete your life with someone who all I wanted was to have a chance".
"You are from the moment that each new letter, each call, each new bureaucratic notification, fills you with hope ... even if it disappears some time later. And the wait can get desperate!"
"You are from the moment you you only think about your son, and looking out the window on your sleepless nights, your eyes fill with tears imagining how it will be, how it will be or how much longer you will have to wait to be together ".
"You are from the moment you you need to give him all the love you've been harboring for a while and that far from decreasing with waiting, it grows and grows tirelessly ".
To moms who have suffered a gestational loss
"To you, you have lost a baby but its passage through your body (has been brief or less brief) He has left an indelible mark on your soul. You long to be a mother and for a while you could taste the immense happiness of pregnancy. But one day, suddenly, your dream was shattered ".
"You see the women around you celebrate Mother's Day accompanied by their children, and your heart is knotted. How difficult it is to hold back tears on a day like today, when your belly is empty when there was life before!"
In Babies and more Repeat abortions: what they are and why they occur, causes and treatments"I will tell you one thing. You are also a mother. You have been a mother for a long time.":
"You are since your heart went wild with joy when you saw the test positive, and you began to imagine what your life would be like from that moment ".
"You are from the moment you you loved that little creature with all your strength That was brewing in your belly. You loved her and took care of the time she was with you, whether it was a lot or a little ".
"You are from the moment when the brightest star in the sky or the brightest rainbow make you cry without comfort, thinking of that baby destined for your arms, who left too soon".
"You are since every year, a date on the calendar breaks your soul into a thousand pieces".
